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November 28, 2009

Encountered incident in the club

An interesting story wanna share.

The setting was a club in KL. It was totally a gays night, the girl friends were all not free to join. Totally a new thing for me. Usually girls will accompany. Guess what, in my mind goes like this : "Yeah its gonna be a fishing/hunting night".

Oh well, that's what usually people do, when they come alone. am i not right ?

Holding a bottle of beer with my friend. Two of us, lifelessly, was trying to suit ourselves with the music but the night totally turn me off. Guess what ? live performance chinese lala songs were played. Felling regret and disappointed to be there might as well the crowd was more on the elderly people. Almost get ourselves out of the club.

Opposite us, there's this 2 girls came alone as well and it was a coincidence I did not place them there for real. Feeling lonely as well. I recon that they were there to hunt for guys as well ? or maybe waiting for guys to approach them.

A Brief description. Let's say she's hot, pretty, curvy, dress perfectly for a girl. Just so I thought of maybe I shall join them since both parties came alone. And I don't know why, I was not ready to make the first move.

Few thoughts in mind.

1) Those girls are definitely older than us.
2) Fear of being rejected. *cause i am so damn young*
3) Will burn a hole in my pocket for spending them drinks.
4) If they're from Klang, need to fetch them back. Would be a hassle.
5) Scared causing into trouble. Might as well get laid.
6) worst come to worst, "I've got no BALLS" to even do anything.

And there was this crazy dude. Roaming around our table, dancing. I shall put it in a way that he was "tengah menghayal" like he was in his dreamland. Tapped me on my shoulder saying.

The crazy dude said
"Hey... the 2 girls infront, goo laaaa. where's your balls !?"

I replied
"I was like wtf? Okayy. waitt larhh you bastard."

Friends opinion
"Ehhh go larhh. You go den i will join you later."

Feeling annoyed by that, but it gives me more motivation.

I know im good at this but im clueless why me being such a coward that night. As the time goes by, I was talking to myself. This shall be a good experience, I always wonder how does this thing works. Should be my first time doing this, to an elderly girls.

got up as I approached, to my surprise. Everything went smoothly. She was a foreign student from Mongolia and she has a very unique name. called Oonoo.

* Where is Mongolia? Mongolia is between Russia and China in Eurasia.

I thought she was local until she showed me her ID. Both of em. Can't believe it. Totally shocked about it. Problem is she looked like a Malaysian Chinese to me. Wasn't expecting this but yeah. continued our conversation and

I asked her this question :
"How old are you"?

She answered me suspiciously :
"You guess" ?

in my mind : Cause im 19 and maybe she's 21.

I answered.
"21"

She replied me in a shocking expression and laugh.
"Im 25"

I was totally shocked that she looked older. Too bad I don't have a photo of her at least I got something to prove. Thus, same theory applied and she asked me back the same question. I said, you guess. LOL.

She replied.
"Elder than 25. Maybe 26".

I replied.
"OMG are you serious I looked that old" ?

Well I can act that im old but I can't accept the fact that im 26 already. and I can't be telling her im 19 either! Totally turned off mode. without thinking any further and I told her im 22. Who knows, just to balanced it up a lil.

She was in shocked. I said why?

She said
"You looked like you're more than 25"

Maybe she's 25 and she was expecting me to be the same 25 as well I guess. People, im not that old. LOL.

Well I guess after she knew that im 22, she barely layan/entertains me. Is like a one way conversation after that which is suppose to be two. Is it because im younger so older girls don't entertain? Or what? The atmosphere/interaction was good before I revealed my age to her.

Girls, what you think?

But just to make things clear. Nothing happened between us.

It's good to know that finally I've got the guts to overcome my fear on something that I usually failed to do in a club. At least I felt that I achieved something. A plus new experience for me.


PS : I was keen to get some feedback of this question from Josh lim's tweet saying.

" Can you find true love in a night club? Can you find a fling in a library? " LOL

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35commented | have you ?:

[hide] Leonard said...

wow. Im so proud of you bro !

Luckily josh lim wasnt there...if not he sure kacau your move d. hahaha

See u sooN !

on November 28, 2009 at 4:24 PM
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[hide] ariff said...

haha. nice one.

on November 28, 2009 at 5:14 PM
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[hide] MissyCheerio said...

OMG SO FUNNY CAN DIE.

on November 28, 2009 at 5:28 PM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Leonard. ya he was not there. Alrights.

Ariff. Thanks?

Missy. Ya the situation was quite funny larh to be honest. but what u think? I need some answers from a girls point of view.

on November 28, 2009 at 5:46 PM
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[hide] Jynx said...

haha.. damn lan c!! ur good at it huh! hahaha! cheers. girls hunting dun 4get ever to invite me babe.. i look 30! hHAHAHA

on November 28, 2009 at 6:09 PM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Jing, hahaha you look 30 ? impossible if i dont know you also i would have guessed it right.

sure of cause will call. but u ffk me a few times.

on November 28, 2009 at 6:23 PM
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[hide] ~ Xi@nGCooL ~ said...

Walao eh!!
Dai Kor Zhai dy lorr!
Go club kao lui!!
Next time must bring me along and teach me on it!
Haha=]=]=]

on November 28, 2009 at 8:03 PM
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[hide] Sumandak From the Land Below the Wind said...

interesting encounter.

on November 28, 2009 at 9:02 PM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Xiang. Dài ko zai? No la ameture Only. Haha sure thing. One day aite.

Sumandak. Hahah thanks?

on November 28, 2009 at 9:34 PM
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[hide] karynong said...

cehh

on November 28, 2009 at 10:44 PM
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[hide] Vivian is the name. said...

buahahahahhaahhaha! Jasoonnnn

on November 28, 2009 at 11:07 PM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Karyn. ala what cheh? lol

Vivian. LOL. yeah this is how the story goes.

on November 29, 2009 at 1:05 AM
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[hide] Josh Lim said...

Funny la you guys. I was there, but later on. I didn't get her number, not interested, but my friend did. Saw her sms to him too, lol :)

Good that you have balls, this is a big step and you're growing up! Not little boy already! Next time you know - don't say your age, say '20-something'. When I was 19...I was dating someone her age.

It's not the age, its the confidence that the age represents. Keep that in mind and better luck next time :)

on November 29, 2009 at 1:13 AM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Joshlim, thanks for ur nice lil advice. I will learn my lesson. Oh well, ur not interested cause ur friend took her number already so you wouldn't wanna disturb him.

if don't say my age den what should i tell her ?

on November 29, 2009 at 1:25 AM
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[hide] yomi said...

yea! its not the age! you must have the confidence and some wits up your sleeve. =P i didnt know you were 19!!!! i thought you were like 21 or 22.

on November 29, 2009 at 1:26 AM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Yomi, you see. Even you thought I was 22. I dont look like 19 to some ppl whos new but yes, indeed im still 19.

yeap, gonna have the confidence next time. HAHA.

on November 29, 2009 at 1:29 AM
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[hide] Kelvin said...

Girls just wanna have fun in clubs...u can't find true love there lol:D

on November 29, 2009 at 2:43 PM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Kelvin. HAHA yeah i thought so too. But who knows maybe you're lucky.

on November 29, 2009 at 8:00 PM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Onn Yee. Most of the girls. Hurmm. Good point. I think the girl think the same like you. Im younger so yeah.

on November 30, 2009 at 12:45 AM
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[hide] OnnYee.安怡 said...

blah...no worries la dude! u still young and dont believe her,u langsung dont look like 26! LOL

on November 30, 2009 at 2:00 AM
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[hide] Jeffro said...

MUAHAHAHA.. Looking old my friend.. Opps.. I mean Looking Good my friend.. xD

*pats on the back* that's why u the dai kor now.. Alright from now forth, going into clubs.. U lead the way.. :D

on November 30, 2009 at 5:21 AM
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[hide] Shelyn said...

U go boy! Boys chattin girls up in the club is a common thing, don't have to be shy about that but obviously don't do it all the time, looks bad on you! Besides, girls in the club aren't usually as good :)

on November 30, 2009 at 8:55 AM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Jeffro, haha im not the dai kor larh. i still prefer being low profile. =) but still, im not old yet im younger that you Jeffro.


Shelyn, haha looks bad on me means i dun look like that kinda person who likes to pick up girls? haha. yeah I agree girls who go clubs are not all good, but who knows rite.

on November 30, 2009 at 12:11 PM
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[hide] Ashleyteng said...

i'm not joking but i do think you're older than 21 when i first saw u , i think that time was at mapaac for paintball rite =D

on December 1, 2009 at 4:26 AM
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[hide] MeiQ said...

Always add 3 years to her age for your age.

When she finds out ur waaaaaaaaaaaaay younger than her, tell her she heard wrongly in the club ;)

on December 1, 2009 at 6:14 AM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

Ashley Teng, hahah really arh ? yeap at MAPAAC. you think i do look like how old when the 1st time u met me ?

MeiQ, LOL nice trick. but what if she is very sure what she heard in the club ? kantoi la later.

on December 1, 2009 at 3:32 PM
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[hide] MeiQ said...

aiya, music so loud in the club, anything is possible right :P

on December 3, 2009 at 2:07 AM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

MeiQ, yeap ur right. but still, at times some girls ears damn sharp wan and insist she heard wrongly. LOL.

anyway, good thing also to lie about your age. LOL. It's not the age, its the confidence that the age represents.

on December 4, 2009 at 3:11 AM
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[hide] Spicy Sharon said...

BASIC RULE NUMBER 1.

2 gals going clubbing does not mean they are going fishing or hunting. Although some are but most are not. A cross for you!

BASIC RULE NUMBER 2.

Great that you approached those chics. Its good to make new friends la. No need to hook up or whatever right. Tick for you. =)

on December 7, 2009 at 12:07 AM
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[hide] mynjayz said...

MizzSharon, yeah hehe. I dont wanna hook up with them also, yeah like you said making friends only. Anyway thanks for the comments and advice yeah.

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